new york, ny • April 2025
I would invite my Lola. She passed away in 2021, and I never had the chance to tell her. Since she lived in the Philippines, I only saw her every few years. She taught me how to garden, sew, and cook, skills that brought us closer together. I think she knew, especially since many of our family members also identified as LGBTQ. Even though she's no longer here, I think she would be proud of who I am today. I just wish she could see it.